02. In The Beginning…

Sometimes you want a baby, but nothing seems to happen for months. Don’t panic, it will happen. You have to remember three key things: Sex, sex, and more sex. A time will come when a smart sperm (or two) will hit the target at the right time. Till then enjoy sex without the rubber!

Sometimes you don’t want a baby, but it happens. Don’t panic, because you won’t regret it when you hear the heartbeat of the life you created.

Keep it simple and do not think about the baby.

Remember the quote from Geeta, “You have control over your duty only, but no control or claim over the results. The result should not be your motive. You should never be inactive. Do your duty to the best of your ability, abandoning the worry and selfish attachment to the results, and remain calm in both success and failure.” 

Replace ‘the results’ with ‘having baby’ and ‘your duty’ with ‘sex’.

Before I end here are few tips we followed, especially for the mom:

·      It is a good idea to visit a gynecologist for preconception counseling…it helps.

·      Get your thyroid and glucose level to normal before conception.

·      Doctor might recommend folic acid tablets.

·      Control your diet; include lots of fruits and fibers.

·      Exercise… go for an evening couple walk.

·      Sexercise…don’t forget to have sex on the right day of the cycle, as many times as you want.

·      Have a free relaxed mind and enjoy the sex.

·      Make sure that she has orgasm too. I don’t know if it helps, but it is fun for sure.

Before the baby is born, it is marinated in an amniotic fluid filled with mothers’ hormones/neurotransmitters for nine months. Studies have shown that the development of baby’s brains depend on those hormones. Baby’s future heavily depends on the pre-natal environment that controls mothers’ moods, and thus her hormones. Decades later, how the mother felt during pregnancy, will guide the decisions your kid will make as an adult, her success, her health and may be even how early she dies.

Before you decide to have a baby, make sure that you to are in the right environment.