For men SEX is always FUN, right? Wrong. The time you
take the decision to take your relationship one step ahead, sex is not about
having fun, it is about having…BABIES. There will be changes in your life- good
and bad. No more do you need to remember the special dates, like the first time
you had strawberry ice-cream together, to have good sex. Instead now you have
to remember the right day in her monthly cycle. No more will your sex
performance be rated by your ability to make her have orgasm, but by your
ability to get those blue lines on the pregnancy test.
And once you are
successful in your objective, it will be all about the mother. You, the poor
daddy, will hardly be noticed the next nine months by people other than your
now unpredictable wife, whose mood swings will keep confusing you. Your
inability to do anything but helplessly watch the pain of the one you love,
during the labor, will make you feel miserable. And then when all that is over,
will come the time of sleepless nights and nappy changes. Welcome to the world of
fatherhood, and believe me, life can’t get better.
'Evolving Daddy' is about the evolution of a father, it is about the things I learn from my kid. It
is about those nine months and beyond. I am not a doctor, so do not expect
any technical advice. It is about what I am learning from our experience
through parenthood.
We have been through those nine months and it has been
the best nine months in our life so far. It has not only
been only about her, but about us. We have been together through these nine months
and will be together through the rest of our life. Fathers do have active role
to play even while mamma is pregnant. Do not shy away, because these moments
won’t come back. There is more to men then just sex and booze.
hey SUB
ReplyDeleteCongrats man !!!!!!!!!!
Mubarak ho Bhai saheb....:)
ReplyDeleteBeing father is really a gr8 feeling...:))
haha..m sure to expect a new kind of khoj here :)
ReplyDeletecongrarts again and all the best!
Sub!! You are the best....am proud you started this blog...evolve and many congratulations...
ReplyDeleteand well, i can relate when you said, women steal the thunder :) i have seen how women stole the thunder and men kept wondering, wait, i did that to her :D
Congrats Subhashis... All the best for your journey!! :)
ReplyDeletewow...this sounds like a whole lot of fun place to be...move over mommies-the daddies also have something to say..and wow again at all that you said-wish more men thought like this!
ReplyDeletecongratulations and stay blessed:-)
wonderful SUB. m glad you started this. i wondered once where you were going to put in your experiences as a father in Khoj. happy for "evolving daddy"
ReplyDeletegood luck & post as often as you can.
its your journey but our flashback :)
oops pls remove the word verification. m sure it slipped your notice
ReplyDeleteI can't feel happy enough for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteIt's great you started this blog.It's such a sweet and wonderful place.
Would love to come here again and again.
And please don't mind if this blog gets all my love and attention instead of Khoj.....
Stay blessed.
WOW Sub..awesome start and I'm gonna watch out for more frm here :-)
ReplyDeleteWelcome to the club son. The most amazing period of your life is about to begin...till the child is about 4 years old. But I can already see you being wrapped around little fingers....twenty nine years later, I still have to unwrap myself:) As I said, welcome to the club....great start to the developing story.
ReplyDeleteLook forward to reading more. It is an experience. My husband's life really changed after our kiddo's were born! He went from doing whatever he wanted to watching 4 young boys {our 2 and my sister's 2}. BUSY in a good way. Most days that is. ;)
ReplyDeleteIt takes a lot of responsibility to become a loving hubby and a caring daddy. So, as u said, every man should not shy away from his responsibilities. Nice post and I liked it very much. I believe. every 'would be dad' will like this post.
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@Jamil: thanks :D
ReplyDelete@Irfan: Sukriya :)....it is an amazing feeling...something i can't describe :)
ReplyDelete@A grain of sand: it is a different khoj...a different learning...or probably part of the same journey :)
ReplyDeletethanks again :D
@Bluntblogger: soo sweet of you...thanks a lot :)
ReplyDelete@Anand: thanks a lot :)
ReplyDelete@Suruchi: glad u liked it...thanks a lot :)
ReplyDelete@Sujatha: here it is...thanks Sujatha :)
ReplyDeletewish you enjoy the flashback :)
@Jojofeelings: don't worry...i might love this one more too :)...keep coming back...and thanks a lot :)
ReplyDelete@Droopy Rose: glad u liked it...keep coming back :)
ReplyDeletethanks a lot :D
Satish Mutatkar: it already feel wonderful...and i know it is going to get better :)....thanks a lot
ReplyDelete@alissa4illustration: she has already changed my life for good...thanks soo much :)
ReplyDelete@sriramnivas: thanks soo much...glad u liked it :)
ReplyDeletelol..i liked this. :) this is what happens in most of couple's..incase if its not accidental..!
ReplyDeletecongrates .
@Chirta: True :)...thanks a lot!
ReplyDeleteLooks like we will also learn a lot from ridhima via U :)
ReplyDelete@Jyoti: :D ... thanks
ReplyDeleteIt only adds to my respect for you...really :)
ReplyDeleteKeep rising mate :) Best wishes :)
Whats the name of little SUB?
@Rohan: Cheers!
ReplyDeleteher name in Hridhima :)
Hey!! Many congratulations evolving daddy!!
ReplyDeleteSuch an innovative idea to start this blog.It will be interesting to know parenthood from the eyes of a husband and father!!
@Upasana: thanks a lot :D
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to all tree of you :) dad, mom and the kid (boy?) :)
ReplyDeleteGood of a man to write stuff like this :) I think every man need this info :)
@Ege: Thanks a lot :)
ReplyDeleteCongrats Sub and best wishes to Hridhima.
ReplyDeleteBtw, I just noticed. Had to ask. What's the extra 'n' doing in the url of KHOJ?
@Kirklops: thanks...i misspelled it :)
ReplyDeleteSub! first, Congrats. Second, I think it's a lovely thought to record all the difference a child can make in your life, to record all the changes and "evolution" you'll be going through. Good luck with parenting. :)
ReplyDelete@Apeetha Ravi: thanka a lot :)
ReplyDeletehmmm so true! well written SUB!
ReplyDelete@shveta: thanks soo much :)
ReplyDeleteYou are indeed blessed....enjoy the journey. All the best new Daddy.
ReplyDelete@Alka Gurha: Thanks soo much Alka :D
ReplyDeletecongratulations again....:) :) :) :) :)
ReplyDelete@Tuktuki: thanks :)
ReplyDeleteEvolving Daddy..congratulations & all the best..your emotions flow through so well hope your wife reads what you write..she should! :)
ReplyDelete@Maitreyee Bhattacharjee Chowdhury: Thanks soo much...i guess she will find out this blog someday :)
ReplyDeleteHey congratulations !
ReplyDeleteYour excitement is clearly seen in your writing.
Facing the swinging mood of a woman is a big deal.
hope you have wonderful experiences ahead.
All the best "evolving daddy" ;)
Very very beautiful and very touchy.
ReplyDelete@Reicha Ahluwalia: thanks soo much :)
ReplyDelete@Nehhal Thanks a lot :D
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